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Two-together are better than one

by Ore Solana

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Loneliness is one of the greatest threats to our sense of well-being, affecting our health through our behaviors on social media, food consumption, and the like. One study suggests that nearly two-thirds of all people—regardless of age or gender—feel lonely at least some of the time. One British supermarket has created “talking tables” in their store cafés as a way to foster connection between people. Those looking for human interaction simply seat themselves at a table designated for that purpose, joining others or indicating a desire to be joined. Conversation ensues, providing a sense of connection and community.

The people of the early church were committed to shared connection too. Without each other, they would likely have felt very alone in the practice of their faith, which was still new to the world. Not only did they “[devote] themselves to the apostles’ teaching” to learn what following Jesus meant, they also “[met] together in the temple courts” and “broke bread in their homes” for mutual encouragement and fellowship (Acts 2:42, 46).

We need human connection; God designed us that way! Painful seasons of loneliness point to that need. Like the people of the early church, it’s important for us to engage in the human companionship our well-being requires and to offer it to those around us who also need it.

How can you intentionally connect with someone today? How might you be overlooking opportunities for friendship?

Write up Culled from: Our Daily Bread
(https://odb.org/2020/05/24/talking-tables/)

Entrepreneurship

I just launched my podcast channel

by Ore Solana

Hurray! It’s my 8th year as an entrepreneur.The road Has not been an easy one to travel but every bump or turn or detour came with it, a lesson for me.I’m glad to have walked this road as it has evolved into fun and interesting yet daily-challenging lifestyle.So, I’ve just launched a podcast channel where I plan to teach entrepreneurship lessons as well as discuss/try to make sense of life issues.Check out my podcast, C.L.U.R.T (Come! Let Us Reason Together), on Anchor: https://anchor.fm/oresolana

Spirituality

My Thoughts on Pentecost

by Ore Solana

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I grew up in the Roman Catholic church so Pentecost Sunday was huge! Over the years and being a CRK (Christian Religious Knowledge) secondary school student I have read and studied the passage in Act 2: 1 – 12 (the message bible is my favourite version) and have always processed the message therein very literarily……. until today.

Acts 2:1-12 The Message (MSG)

A Sound Like a Strong Wind

2: 1-4 When the Feast of Pentecost came, they were all together in one place. Without warning there was a sound like a strong wind, gale force—no one could tell where it came from. It filled the whole building. Then, like a wildfire, the Holy Spirit spread through their ranks, and they started speaking in a number of different languages as the Spirit prompted them.

5-11 There were many Jews staying in Jerusalem just then, devout pilgrims from all over the world. When they heard the sound, they came on the run. Then when they heard, one after another, their own mother tongues being spoken, they were thunderstruck. They couldn’t for the life of them figure out what was going on, and kept saying, “Aren’t these all Galileans? How come we’re hearing them talk in our various mother tongues?

Parthians, Medes, and Elamites;

Visitors from Mesopotamia, Judea, and Cappadocia,

Pontus and Asia, Phrygia and Pamphylia,

Egypt and the parts of Libya belonging to Cyrene;

Immigrants from Rome, both Jews and proselytes;

Even Cretans and Arabs!

“They’re speaking our languages, describing God’s mighty works!”

12 Their heads were spinning; they couldn’t make head or tail of any of it. They talked back and forth, confused: “What’s going on here?”

Today i had some more insight, a EUREKA moment I think; The scripture says the apostles spoke under the influence of the Holy spirit yet every tribe present heard their own language. I’ve always interpreted this as, the apostles spoke in the individual languages……….. but stop for a second to think about it……Wouldn’t that have been chaotic? Everyone speaking in different languages at the same time? There’s no way anyone would have heard or made sense of anything being said.

Today as i read the passage again (thanks to Our Daily Bread, my favourite devotional), i believe the apostles spoke in one language, the heavenly language, however what each tribe heard was their own language. More like as they spoke, God translated each tongue so the respective tribes could understand ( and personalize) what was being said (imagine each person with a translator device/app plugged into their ears). After all, what good is tongues if there’s no one nearby with the gift of translation. God is indeed awesome!!!!!

This is my opinion. What do you think?

Entrepreneurship

Guess who got Profiled again; by The SPARK by BusinessDay!!!

by Ore Solana

Hi, Recently, yours truly was yet again profiled by The SPARK by BusinessDay for business Expertise. As you all know, the subject of entrepreneurship is very dear to my heart, i can talk about business for world-cup (inside joke. lol). Anyways, Back to the subject matter, find excerpts from my interview below and click on “read more…” to see the full write-up; don’t forget to leave your comments. I’ll be glad to hear your thoughts on this.

JSB.

“Ore-Oluwa Ekanem Solana, also known as Bedazzle, is a Strategic Planner. She owns and run a business and also consults on business development and strategy for aspiring entrepreneurs, start-ups and MSMEs. She had a lot to say when she was asked how she started. “My current career path borders around strategic planning and business development and I’d say this career path chose me.

“Years ago, I was fresh out of school with a degree in Pharmacology and a passion for events planning and fashion designing. I had picked up my interest in fashion long before going to university and learnt to cut and sew from a seamstress; my interest in events management, on the other hand, sprung up while planning my department’s customary week long events/activities when I was in 300 Level.

To read the interview, click Here

Entrepreneurship

BEFORE YOU START THAT BUSINESS; Read This!!!

by Ore Solana

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Remember that United Nations World Youth Skills day event I spoke at? Here are a few points from the talk i delivered; I adopted a few of them from Bedazzle’s first day, some I learnt by reading books (I’m a knowledge junkie)/attending business classes/seminars and others I learnt the HARD WAY!

1. Keep proper records; separate the business’ money from your money, you are 2 different entities. Buy a current diary and enter in every single daily credit (sales; revenue) and debit (expenses)

2. Never spend money directly from your daily sales; all funds must pass through the bank first

Random Thoughts

Miss Me????

by Ore Solana

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Hello everyone,

Pheewwww it’s been ages. Lot and lots of work out here. I’ve literally been drowning in work.

From lots of rhinestone orders for my customers to training classes to advisory sessions for start-ups I mentor.

I hope I haven’t missed out on too much though. What have you all been up to?

By the way, I sponsored a basketball team and we WON!!!!! Guess who made the official tournament tees?!

Relationships

RELATIONSHIPS 101: fastest way to move from single to M-A-R-R-I-E-D

by Ore Solana

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We, Humans disagree on a lot of issues ranging from sports to politics to fashion etc but we all seem to agree that marriage should be enjoyed and not endured. We also do agree that marital bliss to a great extent depends on finding and marrying the right person a.k.a Mr. Right/Miss take-home-to-mama; but with the advent of human hair weaves, smart phones and co there seems to be an increasing decline in the ready availability of wife/husband materials.

Girls say they need men they can pound yam for because “God knows the boys of today deserve indomie”. I laughed sooooooo hard the first time I saw this on someone’s “social media” personal message. It was really hilarious (still cracks me up)

Entrepreneurship

ENTREPRENEURSHIP 101: Simple BOOK KEEPING tips for the small Business Owner

by Ore Solana

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So I woke up this morning to balance my accounts. It’s such a daunting task for someone like me, with a medical science degree!

I started out with writing my books in a jotter in plain English ” I bought this and sold this” but I had a hard time reconciling it so I moved on to drawing a table in the jotter (S/No; Date; income; expense; remarks)….reconciling this was much less tedious but I knew it could be done better.

That was my EUREKA moment

I asked myself ……what stationary is printed with Dates and line? ………

DIARY!!!

……….. I started using diaries……….so as it stands, i have a diary of “mybooks” for every year I’ve been in business (asides the first year)

I no longer have to rule in Dates! I just write “Revenue, Expense and remarks (cash deposit into bank account) if any” under each pre-printed date etc.

It’s easier for accountants to upload the data I’ve collected on excel (or any accounting software) and work out profit and loss and the likes!

If you struggle with keeping proper books for your business; Go and buy a Diary today!

Relationships

. . . He committed S-U-I-C-I-D-E??!!!

by Ore Solana

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Depression is a really dark place…..and I’ve been there.

Social media tends to mask a lot of people’s pain with the happy-looking pictures; the 2-fingers-in-the-air; the dab and the weh-done sir images.

Yet after all the likes and comments; and people are back in their own quarters/rooms, life tends to stare them right in the face.

You look at yourself and feel worthless; underachieved, unsuccessful…….. you feel stuck; everyone you know seems to be progressing considerably forward………or so it seems……. that’s what we see on their various social media profiles anyways.

You seem like you’re going down a big black bottomless hole; drowning; clutching at straws …..with no end in sight to this “predicament.”.

You speak to church members and religious leaders and all you get is the usual “all is well” or “God forbid..you cannot be depressed” or “I bind the spirit of
depression”

I’ve been there

A lot of people have been there too

You feel like There’s no one to talk to. “No one understands”; “no one cares”.

Psychologists/psychiatrists can help you. It doesn’t mean you’re “mad” or “going crazy”; these are professionals; trained and certified and sworn to secrecy. Please Book an appointment to see one and just T-A-L-K; You can also call the Nigeria Suicide Prevention Initiative Hotline +234 806 210 6493.

Furthermore, if you know yourself really well and can tell what activities brighten up your day; then by all means, fill your days with those activities repeatedly until you snap out of depression. It is important to note here that it is possible to forget what activities usually brighten up your day. That’s DEPRESSION.
So, ask your close relatives and friends to remind you!

Activities like Watching movies, dancing (it’s fine to have a dance party all by yourself), singing, listening to music, going on long walks; gisting/hanging out with friends seem to help a few people.

Anything to get your mind off the depressing thoughts.

Depression is a really dark place…..and I’ve been there.
Have you?
How did you snap out of it?
Your story might help someone !!!
Please share
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